Living with Dragons
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A reader writes that it is all very well for me to encourage positive thinking in the face of adversity, but it is easier said than done. True enough, and have I ever suggested it was easy? We all need inspiration and hope to see us through the harsher facts of life we are likely to have thrown at us from time to time from one source or another.
As a child, I loved fairy stories and legends, and still do. I have met parents who forbid their children to read them on the grounds that they are not true-to-life and leave them ill-prepared for such trials and tribulations as they will invariably encounter as they grow into the adult world. Not unusually, I disagree.
More often than not, fairy tales and legends have happy endings, heroes getting the better of villains and everyone left living the Happy-Ever-After that is their hallmark. Not so, in real life for much of the time. Even so, the best tales see good overcoming bad, heroes defeating villains etc. Like many children, I used to love role-play, even on my own, when I would play the imaginary hero sure to get the better of whatever villain I would pick from whatever story or (as would happen not infrequently) a real-life experience at home, at school, wherever.
The death of a loved-one or close friend can take us to the edge of reason, sending us into battle with the most fearsome of all dragons, our own mortality; even as we grieve, we find ourselves fighting on two fronts. Some find inspiration in their religion. Me, I take heart from Happy-Ever-After tales whose endings are but new beginnings. No? Well, disprove it if you can.
Such role-plays would serve me well as I grew to face the harsher realities of teenage years and adult life. At 75, I can honestly say they still do. Mind over matter, much of it well may be, but if it works… who cares? I have lost count of how many times I have become a favourite storybook hero in my head and it has lifted flagging spirits just to feel that I can and will get through a bad time and learn from it… eventually.
“I believe in everything until it's disproved. So, I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?"― John Lennon.
LIVING WITH DRAGONS
Some
ghosts, they haunt
shadowy
corners of the mind
while
others would keep us
safe
and sound from such fears
as
well might make
cowards
of us all or, worse still,
see
us engage with dragons shadowing
our
darkest thoughts
The
human spirit, it run
a
gauntlet of conflicting emotions;
love
and hate often vying
with
each other to be top dog
in
stakes whose winners
take
all, losers left mulling over
how
they might do better another time,
and
someone to blame
Such
is the Here-and-Now
a
blast of home truths stripped bare
of
such excuses
as
might well fool any believing
they
know us better
than
we know ourselves
but
for a dragon bringing us down
and
proving us all mistaken
Ah,
but the human spirit
is
a match for any dragon’s hellfire,
not
least for fighting
fantasy
with fantasy, so dampening
flames of innuendo
fuelling gossip and stereotypes
behind closed doors (as only human)
with a kinder imagination
Life
may be going so badly
as
to wring tears of despair from us,
yet
we have but to play
giantkiller,
visit friends in Toyland,
cross
angry seas
with
Ulysses, reunite with love,
in
whatever it is every human heartbeat
will
always have a head start
However
high, whatever odds
stacked
against us, there are beanstalks
to
climb, giants to defeat
(one
way or another) and dragons
to
confront head-on,
for
where the heart is willing,
as
led (or misled) by faery days of long ago
be
sure the mind will follow
Therein
lies the untold story of humanity,
its
penchant for fantasy…
Copyright R. N. Taber 2021
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